An average working adult nearly makes about 14 decisions between the time period of two hours before he wakes up. The number may vary on an individual basis. From the study done at Cornell University, it states that on adult makes 75(+-) decisions a day. As soon as he/she wakes up, the first decision made is to snooze or not to snooze, should I check my cellphone or not what will I wear today or will I go to work or not. In this way, being a human being we make various conscious and unconscious choices throughout the day. But taking the decisions without a proper plan and choice is what we lack which leads us to moan about our luck. Well, what if I told you there was a better way to make decisions in your daily life and save you from the regret you make by yourself. If so, let us continue…
Here, I will talk to you about your wonderful “POWER OF CHOICE”. When we have fewer choices in life we are not in a natural manner but are compelled to take immediate decisions of life big or small(or something we say “GO WITH THE FLOW”.This process carries on every single day and every single hour. Everything we can change in our lives is directly proportional to the choices we make. So, we need to know about the power of our choice.
We should utilize our power of choosing the right way. Example: If you want your body to be fit from fat, but your choices are to eat junk foods, sleep all day, be lazy, and don’t do any physical workouts, you will end up with the same old you. So, in this case, your choice and expectations do not fill in the same cup and at the conclusion, must of us(people) end up blaming our destiny and luck when the problem is with our choice.
New life comes from new choices but one should be able to make conscious choices. When you can change the force that controls you, you can too change anything that happens in your life. When we are in a wrong state, we end up making wrong decisions but when we are in an empowering and strong state, we make up great decisions. The state or place we are now, in our life are all the consequences of the choices we made in our past. Every one of us wants to progress, but none of us want to change as like said:” EVERYBODY WANTS TO GO TO HEAVEN BUT NOBODY WANTS TO DIE.” So what puts our life in a crisis is we’re all being reinforced to make choices and decide immediately.
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Most of the people, they eat, they drink, they smoke, they hate everyone because they are rewarded from within to be so. Hence, whatever gets rewarded gets reinforced and whatever habit or behavior gets reinforced, it comes to habit, and soon, doing it for long, this becomes the part of our personality and finally, we end up believing its who we are and live a life of misery.
So, here my point is to have an idea of what you want beforehand and try to anticipate a future decision that must be made.”THE POWER OF CHOICE” is yours to keep an if you can prevent regret or make more conscious decisons, why wouldn’t you ? CHOOSE WISELY.
“THERE ARE TWO PRIMARY CHOICES IN LIFE : TO ACCEPT CONDITIONS AS THEY EXIST, OR ACCEPT THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR CHANGING THEM.”
– Aditya Thakuri